Q: If you have a boyfriend are you obligated to buy him things like dinner and such or are you supposed to let him pay, if you don't buy him things is that a bad thing? -Anonymous
A: Dear Anonymous,
To have a successful relationship the only obligation both parties must hold is to have good means of communication,trust,friendship and amazing sex. Everything else is optional. I'm guessing you have a very generous bf. The very generous bf typically likes buying you things because he loves to see you happy and taken care of. And automatically that makes him feel good. It'll be sweet on occasion if you could give him a reminder that you appreciate him [different than just saying it,of course]!!! It could be a dinner date,you in lingerie ;),new watch,home cooked meal etc. Be creative! I'm a traditionalist in the sense that I feel men should pay for breakfast,brunch,lunch & dinner :D...at least 99.999% of the time.
Good Luck,
S
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